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It’s Called “Horse Dancing”
[Feeling Grateful] November 23, 2025 Retirement Day #2316 “Anything forced or misunderstood can never be beautiful.” –Xenophon [350B.C.] I was asked the other day “why dressage?” in reference to one of my more passionate retirement pursuits. Some people get 2 nd homes, boats, go on cruises…. I got a horse. At first, it was about continuing a subtle connection with my daughter, who, in her teen years, rode and showed her horse StarBuck [a Lippitt Morgan who, ironically enoug

M. Linda Graham
Nov 235 min read


Tend the Flames / Mind the Ashes
11/10/2025 Retirement Day #2303 Last weekend I attended the H2 dance concert at the Knickerbocker Theater in Holland, MI. The performance was remarkable thanks to a strong senior class of dancers presenting with qualitative range and technical capacity. The tap, jazz/hip-hop and contemporary choreography was entertaining and satisfying. It was delightfully nostalgic to see Ray Tadio’s “Chandra Duet #1” again – a powerful work originally created 20 [WHAT?!?] years ago and per

M. Linda Graham
Nov 101 min read
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How The Pale Horse Found A Rider [updated: October 13, 2025]
[based on true-ish events] Introduction: This is the story of how a horse who was ghosted and a woman who was a ghost before her time found each other on that backroad between the Living and the Lost. Like all good ghost stories, it begins with tragedy and a curse. I. Tragedy: Exit, Love Part a: Moon was a beautiful pearl-gray Morgan-Andalusian crossbreed - a rare breed with a rarer coat color that shimmers in the sunlight and disappears in the muffled white da

M. Linda Graham
Oct 138 min read


An Homage to Beginnings: Aerial Dance Company: The First Seven Years 1986-1993
Dedicated to Judy, Billy & Max Retirement Day #2251 Introduction Classes began at Hope College last week and, for the 7 th year, I’m...

M. Linda Graham
Aug 309 min read


Rule #4: Keep Counting
08/01/2025 Retirement Day #2222 M. Linda Graham Several Years ago, I wrote a blog about the “why” behind my counting of retirement days...

M. Linda Graham
Aug 12 min read
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[Failed] Retirement Day #2143
May 12, 2025 A few weeks back I received an unexpected call from an alum who currently lives and works in Cincinnati, OH. She and her...

M. Linda Graham
May 121 min read


RIP Lynne Taylor-Corbett: Thank You for the Dance
44yrs ago, I became a member of Dayton Contemporary Dance Company (1981-1982). One of the reasons I auditioned for the company was...

M. Linda Graham
Jan 232 min read


Retirement Day #2014: Dog Gone It 2024
An Argo & Lucca Happy New Year CyberCard! [click on the link] https://youtu.be/Q4d76yxRV1I

M. Linda Graham
Jan 51 min read


Operation Eagle Eye: Vision Quest
Or: Body Whack-A-Mole #6 Pt. 2 September 29, 2024 RD #1917 Operation Eagle-Eye: Vision Quest: an accurate description for what I’m...

M. Linda Graham
Sep 29, 20242 min read


Harvest Stomp: A Rant for September
Monday September 4, 2024 Retirement Day #1892 Don't get me wrong, I dearly love harvest time - but it is September 4, and at this point,...

M. Linda Graham
Sep 4, 20242 min read


Body Whack-A-Mole #6: Re-Vision
Tues. August 14, 2024 Retirement Day #1872 Several years ago, I wrote a blog about how, at the age of 7, my myopia was discerned,...

M. Linda Graham
Aug 14, 20243 min read


GoodGoodByes
June 3, 2024 Retirement Day #1800 “World Death Rate Holding Steady at 100%” – Headline from The Onion, Jan. 22, 1997 None Of Us Gets Out...

M. Linda Graham
Jun 3, 20243 min read


Retirement Day #1765: The Violets are Blooming
My brothers and I stayed with Uncle Stu and Aunt Tommy when Mom gave birth to my sister. The day also happened to be Easter. To preoccupy...

M. Linda Graham
Apr 30, 20242 min read


Captured in Passing: Dance 50
Retirement Day #1700 One week ago today, Holland, MI witnessed a unique celebration at Hope College. Over 250 Dancers of all ages,...

M. Linda Graham
Feb 24, 20242 min read


No Pain - All Gain
Retirement Day # 1602: This is a little awkward – I don’t want to brag, but…. Yesterday morning I woke up feeling rested, light, content,...

M. Linda Graham
Nov 18, 20233 min read


Retirement Day #1486: July Is Dressed Up
Four years retired and yet, at the end of July, a deep tug still pesters my gut: “school is just around the corner tick-tock-tick-tock.”...

M. Linda Graham
Jul 25, 20231 min read


Retirement Day #1474: The "Real Fox" News
Stuck home with the COVID & having a little fever fox fun: https://youtu.be/VtSLX9GFewA

M. Linda Graham
Jul 13, 20231 min read


Fox Mama: A Story of Parental Love
Retirement Day #1414- homage for Mother's Day This seemed like the right day to post a fable of unconditional parental love. A...

M. Linda Graham
May 15, 20231 min read
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MERDE! [got your attention? good! the show is great - read on!]
Retirement Day #1351 Tonight, Dance 49, the annual showcase dance concert presented for the last (can you guess?) 49 years by the Hope...

M. Linda Graham
Mar 11, 20232 min read


Who's Grooming Who?
Retirement Day #1344 [A Soapbox Moment] Tennessee is officially restricting "adult cabaret performances" — which it defines as including...

M. Linda Graham
Mar 5, 20232 min read
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